May 8, 2008

Public Speaking

Since I was a child, the idea of speaking before a group has been the cause of skyrocketing stress levels, tension and frenzy. Comedian Jerry Seinfeld put this common fear succinctly with, “People would rather be inside the coffin at a funeral, than deliver the eulogy”. In both my professional and personal lives, however, public speaking is a necessity and I have worked very hard to conquer my fear. For me and for the majority of people, the #! confidence booster is is good knowledge of your subject matter.

The Library has quite a few books on public speaking. The major points usually included in the guides are:

1. Prepare for the speech.
2. Make an outline with talking points, rather than a manuscript so the speech is more conversational.
3. Rehearse the speech.
4. Ask questions about format – what is the set up, including AV equipment, the audience, and how much time you will have.
5. If you are nervous, slow down.
6. Eye contact is important.
7. Use technology sparingly.
8. Don't acknowledge that you are nervous.
9. Visualize yourself being successful.

For more advice on how to keep the attention of your next audience, check out these items:
Present like a pro: the field guide to mastering the art of business, professional, and public speaking by Cyndi Maxey and Keven E. O'Connor.

The elements of great public speaking: how to be calm, confident, and compelling by J. Lyman MacInnis.

Public speaking for dummies by Malcolm Kushner.

Mastering the art of public speaking
by Peter Desberg.

No-brainers on public speaking [videorecording] / No-Brainers Think Tank produced by Barry Rubenstein; written by Matt Flanagan; directed by Jonathan M. Reich.

The public speaker's Bible : the definitive guide to speaking in public by Stuart Turner.

And do you know about Toastmasters International? It is a non-profit educational organization that teaches public speaking and leadership skills through a worldwide network of meeting locations. We have a chapter right here! The Nashua Hudson Toastmasters Club meets on the 1st and 3rd Wednesdays of every month at the Nashua Public Library from 6:30 -8:30 PM. For more information, call Mike @ 603-889-8152 or take a look at their website.


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Calling All Writers, Knitters, and Spanish-Language Learners

Often the ideas for library programs come from staff members, but sometimes they come from you. A few months back, a library user asked me if the library could start a writers group. A few weeks later, someone asked about holding a Spanish conversation group here. And from time to time knitters have said they'd like to get together with other knitters at the library.

So in March we invited anyone interested in these areas to attend organizational meetings here. Out of that, the three groups blossomed, and they are meeting regularly at the library.

Knitting Group
The knitting group chose to meet weekly, sometimes at lunch time and sometimes at night. If you enjoy knitting, bring your projects and join them, on the first and third Wednesdays of the month at 12:30 p.m. and the second and fourth Wednesdays of the month at 6:30 p.m. Upcoming dates are May 14 at 6:30 p.m., May 21 at 12:30 p.m., and May 28 at 6:30 p.m.

Spanish Conversation Group
The members of the Spanish conversation group are at the intermediate level. Occasionally a native speaker joins them, which gives everyone a chance to practice speaking with an expert. There is no formal leader of the group; a different member volunteers to choose a theme for each meeting. Their meetings are scheduled on the second Tuesday and the third Thursday of the month at 7 p.m. Upcoming dates are May 13, May 15, June 10, and June 19.

Writers Group
At writers group meetings, members read each other's work (aloud or silently) and then critique it. The group is for writers of fiction or nonfiction prose. If you decide to join them, bring four copies of 4-5 pages of your writing to share. The group meets on the third Monday of the month and most Fridays. Meetings begin at 7 p.m. Upcoming dates are May 9, May 19 (this meeting will start at 7:30 pm), and May 30.

Poets Unbound
Poets Unbound, a poetry critique group, also meets at the library. They've been together for 11 years. If you'd like to join them, come to the library on Thursdays at 7 p.m. (except on the second Thursday of the month).

Want more info?
If you want to be kept abreast of when these groups meet, subscribe to our online newsletter, This week @ your library. For more information, email me.

Carol Luers Eyman
Outreach and Community Services Coordinator

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May 6, 2008

Great Stone Face Book Award

Every year the children's librarians in NH sponsor the "Great Stone Face Book Award". The award has been around since 1980 when Judy Blume was the first recipient for her renowned book "Are You There God, It's Me Margaret". The winner of this year's award will be announced at the New Hampshire Library Association Spring Conference later this month.
In Nashua, the librarians in the school district have their fourth and fifth graders vote for their favorite of the twenty-five titles selected by NH public librarians for the award year. As the public library children's librarian, I tally all the votes received from the schools and any votes that are submitted here at the library. I am pleased to announce that the top vote-getter in Nashua is "Punished" by David Lubar. This easy to read novel is about two friends that are fooling around in the library and bump into a mysterious man. The man punishes the boy named Logan by causing him to speak in puns. The only way to break the spell is to find seven examples of oxymorons, anagrams, and palindromes within the time limit that will return Logan to normal.
It will be interesting to see how the rest of the state votes and which book will take the top award. Nashua has been quite successful over the years in being able to predict the statewide winner. I guess our kids can just feel the pulse of a really good book. Stay tuned as I will reveal the results in an upcoming blog and in the meantime, check out "Punished".

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May 2, 2008

National Observance for Everything Month

According to Chase's Calendar of Events, my go-to book whenever I'm stuck for a blog topic, May seems to be the month for reminding everyone to pay attention to physical and mental health. Just a few of the conditions being featured by a national observance month this May are: better hearing and speech, family wellness, fibromyalgia, skin cancer, allergy/asthma, arthritis, hepatitis, mental health, stroke and osteoporosis. Every single one of these conditions deserves our attention and support. Personal experience led me to discuss osteoporosis in my blog this time.

My father was not the first member of the family to develop osteoporosis, but it was unusual enough to catch my attention. I thought only women developed osteoporosis. Not true. It's not as common in men as in women, but it does happen. I thought it was just a minor inconvenience. Not true. It is possible to break bones by coughing or even turning your upper body too quickly. I thought that osteoporosis occurred only because you didn't drink enough milk as a child. Not true. There are many causes for osteoporosis, and the tendency to develop it can run in families. If you have or had an elderly female relative with a dowager's hump, (in my family that was my grandmother on my father's side) you were probably told that this was the penalty for not standing up straight. Not true. The hump was the result of undiagnosed osteoporosis.

A chance mention of these things to my doctor led to my first bone density scan, fast, painless, and vital to determining how far along the path to osteoporosis I was. Osteoporosis shows no symptoms until it's very advanced, but it is possible to detect this condition at a much younger age than before and initiate treatment. For this reason it is important to review your family history and your life style and become as knowledgeable as possible about osteoporosis. If your doctor doesn't suggest a bone density scan and you feel there is a possibility that you might need one, ask about it. Untreated osteoporosis can change your life, and not for the better.

If you need information, try these websites: The National Institute on Aging where a search for osteoporosis will give you an article which can be ordered in print or read on line, Osteoporosis : the bone thief. Another good site is Medline plus where a search for osteoporosis will link to informative articles on the subject.

If you would like to do some reading on the topic, there are several books at the library which would provide valuable information.
Strong women, strong bones by Miriam E. Nelson
I'm not slowing down: winning my battle with osteoporosis by Ann Richards
Mayo Clinic on osteoporosis edited by Stephen Hodgson
Better bones, better body : beyond estrogen and calcium by Susan E. Brown
Yoga builds bones: easy, gentle stretches that prevent osteoporosis by Jan Maddern

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April 30, 2008

May Day

It may not be high on most people's list of favorite holidays, but tomorrow is May Day. According to World Book encyclopedia, May Day "is celebrated as a spring festival in many countries. It marks the revival of life in early spring after winter. May Day celebrations may go back to the spring festivals of ancient Egypt and India."

And who can argue with a holiday that celebrates the arrival of warm weather?

Since it's not a hot topic, I didn't expect to see much in the library's catalog, but we actually do have several books. I did a general keyword search for "May Day" (with the quotes, so it searched for the two words as a single phrase). The catalog came up with ten titles. Now, a general keyword search will search subject, title, author, and all additional text in a book's catalog record, including the table of contents. The computer doesn't know that I mean the holiday--it just looks for the words, and it finds any record with that phrase in it. So, I found a Louisa May Alcott book because it contains a story called "Mabel's May day." But I also found:

Paula Deen celebrates! : best dishes and best wishes for the best times of your life
This one has chapters on how to celebrate special occasions--including, you guessed it, May Day.

There's also an oldie but goodie, "The Days we Celebrate"

For children, there's:

"Summer's Coming In" by Natalia Benting, which is a verse description of various summer and spring festivals.

May Day, by Dorothy Les Tina.

So, pick up a good book and celebrate May Day--curl up on one of the chairs in front of the library and enjoy the weather!

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April 29, 2008

Dangerous Ideas

Two years ago the online magazine The Edge asked scientists and other specialists to state their "most dangerous idea", an idea "that is dangerous not because it is assumed to be false, but because it might be true" -- in other words, an idea which might well be true even if many people would rather it not be. It's worth going through all 119 ideas listed at the site, but the following four are a sample:

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1. There is no such thing as blame or responsibility. (Richard Dawkins)

"Doesn't a truly scientific, mechanistic view of the nervous system make nonsense of the very idea of responsibility, whether diminished or not? Any crime, however heinous, is in principle to be blamed on antecedent conditions acting through the accused's physiology, heredity and environment. Don't judicial hearings to decide questions of blame or diminished responsibility make as little sense for a faulty man as for a Fawlty car?

"Why is it that we humans find it almost impossible to accept such conclusions? Why do we vent such visceral hatred on child murderers, or on thuggish vandals, when we should simply regard them as faulty units that need fixing or replacing? Presumably because mental constructs like blame and responsibility, indeed evil and good, are built into our brains by millennia of Darwinian evolution. Assigning blame and responsibility is an aspect of the useful fiction of intentional agents that we construct in our brains as a means of short-cutting a truer analysis of what is going on in the world in which we have to live. My dangerous idea is that we shall eventually grow out of all this and even learn to laugh at it, just as we laugh at Basil Fawlty when he beats his car. But I fear it is unlikely that I shall ever reach that level of enlightenment."

Trust Dawkins to shake things up with something like this, and don't miss his many books in the library's collection.

2. Zero parental influence. (Judith Rich Harris)

"Is it dangerous to claim that parents have no power at all (other than genetic) to shape their child's personality, intelligence, or the way he or she behaves outside the family home? More to the point, is this claim false? Was I wrong when I proposed that parents' power to do these things by environmental means is zero, nada, zilch?... The establishment's failure to shoot me down has been nothing short of astonishing. One developmental psychologist even admitted, one year ago on this very website, that researchers hadn't yet found proof that 'parents do shape their children,' but she was still convinced that they will eventually find it, if they just keep searching long enough."
For parents who love wisdom like this, the library has two books by Harris dealing with the issue.

3. Groups of people may differ genetically in their average talents and temperaments. (Steven Pinker)

"Whether or not these hypotheses hold up (the evidence for gender differences is reasonably good, for ethnic and racial differences much less so), they are widely perceived to be dangerous. [Advocates have been] subjected to months of vilification, and proponents of ethnic and racial differences in the past have been targets of censorship, violence, and comparisons to Nazis. Large swaths of the intellectual landscape have been reengineered to try to rule these hypotheses out a priori (race does not exist, intelligence does not exist, the mind is a blank slate inscribed by parents)."
Pinker is a prolific writer on the nature-nurture controversy, and the library has four of his books.

4. Science encourages religion in the long run (and vice versa). (Scott Atran)

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"Science treats humans and intentions only as incidental elements in the universe, whereas for religion they are central. Science is not particularly well-suited to deal with people's existential anxieties, including death, deception, sudden catastrophe, loneliness or longing for love or justice. It cannot tell us what we ought to do, only what we can do. Religion thrives because it addresses people's deepest emotional yearnings and society's foundational moral needs, perhaps even more so in complex and mobile societies that are increasingly divorced from nurturing family settings and long familiar environments... Religion is the hope that science is missing."
The library has Atran's acclaimed In Gods We Trust which attempts to explain the evolution of religion.

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April 28, 2008

Your Name Is What?

Most expecting parents look at baby name books to find names they would like to name their children. A new book at the library, Bad Baby Names: The Worst True Names Parents Saddled Their Kids With--and You Can Too!, does just the opposite. It offers lists of bad baby names. The authors, Michael Sherrod and Matthew Rayback, work at Ancestry Publishing, and every name they included in the book was listed in the US Census between 1790 and 1930. It's a funny read, and a nice break from the books that list 100,000 names. (Believe me, I know!)

If you're a fan of The Simpsons, you will appreciate that 10 of the names Bart uses when he calls Moe's Tavern are in the book. Yes, there was an Al Caholic. Some of the names are funny because of the combination of the first and last names: Golden Graham, Young Love, and Major League. Other names, such as Devil, Satan, and Lucifer, are a bit frightening. Then, there are names that make you wonder if you're registering for kitchenware, such as Spoon, Knife, Bowl, Skillet, and Pot. Believe it or not, only one state had not been used as a first name by 1930. The book isn't very long, but I could go on and on...

If you need a laugh, a conversation starter, or want to know the state that had not been a first name, take a look at Bad Baby Names. And, if you know of a name that should be in the book, leave a comment below.

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April 25, 2008

Where there's a will ......

Sooner or later, as one approaches a certain "age", wealth or responsibility, one needs to think about one's will. After doing some research, I found out a few odd facts about some wills and their peculiarities. First of all, some wills are famous for their length. Nelson Rockefeller's will was 64 pages long. Other wills are famously short. The shortest known legal will in history is that of Bimla Rishi of Delhi, India. His will, written in Hindi, translates as "all to son" and consists of just four characters.

Other wills are famous for the items bequethed, as in the case of Napoleon Bonaparte who left his articles of personal hygiene to his family. Last year, Leona Helmsley left 12 million dollars to her dogs but nothing to her grandchildren. Luis Carlos de Noronha Cabral da Câmara was a noble Portuguese who, in the presence of a notary, grabbed a Lisbon telephone directory and gave away his fortune to 70 people he called randomly.

One of the oldest wills was found in an Egyptian tomb and was written around the year 17 B.C. In this will, a man named Uah divided his property among his family and slaves and asked to be buried with his wife. The Romans were the first ones to write wills as legal documents, but it was not until the Middle Ages that wills became important.

According to Consumer Reports, 66% of Americans do not have a will. If after reading this blog entry you wish to begin to write one, here are some materials that might help you:

Nolo's simple will book by by Denis Clifford.

Your will and estate plan
by Harvey Platt.

How to make your own will: with forms by Mark Warda.

Planning for the future: providing a meaningful life for a child with a disability after your death by L. Mark Russell and Arnold E. Grant - A handbook of information for parents as they plan for their child's life after their own deaths. Describes step-by-step all of the elements that parents must consider to provide a happy and fulfilling life for their child with a disability.

The complete book of wills, estates & trusts by Alexander A. Bove, Jr.

And look here for some additional materials!

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April 23, 2008

Clutterblog

“Clutter-busters: from closets, to cabinets, to garages, America’s clutter is piling up like never before.” This assertion by Nichole L. Torres I found in an on-line excerpt on Goliath, Business Knowledge on Demand. Her article is about the new businesses being spawned to help people with their over-stuffed closets, disorganized offices, and kitchens and living rooms convulsing with clutter. You can find out how you can be your own boss and clean up in this industry. You can even join the National Association of Professional Organizers.
Or, like me, you can wonder how everything got this way. Some say it’s the result of unprecedented material wealth. I do remember doing a lot of shopping during the Clinton administration. Since then, I have tried to stay out of the stores unless I am doing the food shopping. But I remember seeing more and more storage boxes, everywhere I went. They may have been attractive decorator solutions or utilitarian plastic flat bins to roll under your bed. Sometimes, the bed isn’t high enough and you have to buy cones to raise the bed up to get your storage thing under it. We have the bags you vacuum the air out of. I bought one chest-like box to keep fabric in that is so big, that it is a challenge to move or to find a place for. I guess I should have gotten one that would look elegant serving as a coffee table. I could probably get a top for it and make a cover for it using the fabric inside. I knew when I saw all the storage containers in all the stores, that everyone had gone over the top and bought too much and that I was not alone. The next thing I noticed was the humongous houses going up. That made sense given the size of some of the storage boxes. In my case it’s more a case of not wanting to get rid of family items from fabric to furniture. I have learned from the organization books that this not good from a feng-shui point of view. It means I’m living in the past and that I should move on, throw-out and don’t look back.
There are a lot of books, even a DVD, on how to de-clutter. Some the library has purchased are listed below. One by Peter Walsh I took so personally, I felt wounded by the title. Does this clutter make my butt look fat? It’s an easy plan for losing weight and living more. Come on, Peter! Give us a break! We feel bad as it is. You know it doesn’t stop there because you have seen the shows on television. The Associated Press spent a month with one family trying to break its clutter habit.

When this library got a new director in 2002, he told us that the library needed to weed our collections. Everyone who ordered books was encouraged to start getting rid of the books that don’t go out at all. Mr. Dionne told us about Charles Robinson, director of The Baltimore Public Libraries in the 1990’s, who increased the gate count and circulation of the libraries with an easy formula. Robinson himself says, “Baltimore County staff made a fine art out of … increasing weeding and buying multiple copies of high demand titles, all of which increased circulation significantly. Not all that difficult, but it's amazing how many libraries don't take those easy steps to increase customer use and satisfaction.” It seems that more customers will be apt to take more books out if there are fewer very popular titles. It’s a visual thing.
Six years later we are still deselecting books. It isn’t easy for anyone who loves books to get rid of books. Sometimes we get rid of a book that looks awful because of overuse and buy a new copy. Other times, it’s sad when you have selected a book and find that no one ever took it out. We started doing business with a firm called Better World Books in the last year or two. We send them books and they sell some, give some away to charities and we share in the proceeds along with a charity we select. They have had to change their ways recently and now we can only send titles that we scan and they say they accept. So, rather than put all of our weeded books into the landfill, we send some to Better World and some to Got Books. Got Books is in Reading Massachusetts but they come to Nashua once monthly to pick up boxes of books. These books are sold in booksales that benefit charities. You can visit them on the Web at http://www.gotbooks.com/ where you can type in your zip code and get the location of Convenient Drop-Off Containers!
If it’s all too much and you want to organize, you may read some of these books. You may decide to make peace with the things in your life and keep your possessions from overwhelming you. On the other hand, mind over clutter reminds me of Alan Watts who said about “Mind over matter", "If you don’t mind it doesn’t matter.” and “What’s the matter? Never mind!”


Does this clutter make my butt look big? : an easy plan for losing weight and living more By Peter Walsh

It’s all too much : an easy plan for living a richer life with less stuff by Peter Walsh

One thing at a time : 100 simple ways to live clutter-free every day by Cindy Glovinsky


Organizing from the inside out : the foolproof system for organizing your home, your office, and your life by Julie Morgenstern

Mission organization : strategies and solutions to clear your clutter

For packrats only : how to clean up, clear out, and live clutter-free forever! By Don Aslett

Making peace with the things in your life by Cindy Glovinsky

Sink reflections by Marla Ciley – the FlyLady

Organizing from the inside out {videorecording] produced by Twin sities Public Television, Inc.

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April 22, 2008

April School Vacation Week

Well, it is almost upon us. It creeps up every year so quietly and unassumingly as to almost go unnoticed and then WHAM...April School Vacation Week is here!! We can be so preoccupied with all things spring that vacation week seems far off in the future but for Nashua and the surrounding area towns, vacation week is April 28-May 2 this year. If it is a beautiful week weatherwise, families and children will be happy to enjoy the warm, fresh air and the library will be one of the last places on their minds as a place to go. BUT, if the weather turns cloudy and fierce and rain is the order of the day then the library as a destination will be for certain. Click on this link http://www.nashualibrary.org/documents/spring08vac.pdf for a look at some of the fun things planned here at NPL for kids, rain or shine. And then visit us anyway because what better way to spend a beautiful spring day than with a book.

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